Letter to the Other Woman ---Part 3

Dear Other Woman(I use this lightly),

Well who knew we would ever see one another in the same place.  I have to wonder why a woman would find a man or a piece of man so attractive if he exhibits no signs of being a provider and protector of his own children.  This is your idea of a "stepfather" for your kids.  It seems to me based on your current situation and number of kids you keep looking in the wrong places.   Why would this piece of a man be allowed in my children's lives?  maybe that's just me being logical.   You flaunt this piece of a man around your kids as if he's the prize in the Cracker Jack box, really?   I'm embarrassed to know my children share his DNA.   To go as far as introducing this piece of a man as a new "son in law" is a joke considering this piece of a man is not even divorced.   I guess for you this is a minor technicality considering you were sending pictures of your genitalia on his cell phone while he and I were living under the same roof! 

You apparently don't understand how marriage or the divorce process works.  How would you?  For mature married individuals who plan on staying married, they typically do not entertain needy individuals like yourself.  Why? you may ask, well it's pretty simple a good provider of his family works hard to preserve what he has built and seeks to remain a powerful force for his family.  You probably will never understand this because you are in a relationship with someone who initiated your relationship based on lies and deceit.  There is no long term future in your messiness.   By all means, you can get married,  however the divorce must be final as we do not live in Utah or Nevada where polygamy is still practiced.   For those like myself on the edge of my seat waiting for the ink to be dry and the judge to finalize my divorce decree it is really not that simple.   In our wonderful state when you elect to buy "marital property" with someone you must first sell the marital property before a divorce is granted.  Option 2 is one party may buy the other party out to relinquish the other of any ownership or debt associated with the marital property.  I seriously doubt the other party can afford to buy me out.  When you want to interject what you believe is holding up the divorce, have your facts straight.   However you're only as knowledgeable as the information you receive and you're being fed lie after lie.  I'm sitting on the sidelines laughing at the foolishness and hoping one day real soon I will get my divorce decree in the mail.  In the meantime, I really hope you are thoroughly enjoying my SLOPPY SECONDS!
Free2bMe

Letter to the Other Woman -- Part 2

Dear Other Woman,

I'm back again with some choice words.  Writing is good for the soul! so don't judge me.   It has been one year since leaving my soon to be(not soon enough) ex spouse.   I wish I could report the soon to be(not soon enough) ex has greatly matured and is more focused on being a good parent.  NOT!

First and foremost thank you for taking this idiot off my hands.  It is amazing how you were so quick to go up into my foreclosed house with my name on it; that I shared with my soon to be ex(not soon enough) and wallow in the same bed on the same mattress and box spring that I shared with my soon to be ex(not soon enough).  I just wonder what was your motivation, did you need to see how I was living that badly? did you think you were moving in?  did you think he was able to move you in?  NOT!  Oh, and the ultimate is one of my friends spotting you in the supermarket( where I use to shop) as you pranced around shopping (coffee cup in hand) with the idiot; like you owned the place.  You'll need all of that prancing when you're in the same shoes that won't fit.   

For all the manipulation he used to encourage you to take the 45 mile drive to the foreclosed house with my name on it, I hope you got everything you were wishing for and more. The way I see it only a real B&*%$ would enter into another woman's home under these circumstances.   You already crossed the line on so many levels, but this right here is a real example of just how classless you are as a woman!  Do you think in the words of Charlie Sheen, you're WINNING?  What did you gain, a reality check on what you will never have at my expense.  I can only imagine the lies he's telling you because I have been there done that.  I don't understand what is so exciting about a foreclosed house that is owned by the bank and a few steps away from going up for sheriff's sale.    When you put the key in the lock of your house put your feet up because I revel in knowing that you are stuck with my SLOPPY SECONDS!   I love the fact I can methodically find Mr. Right! for me and it definitely will not be someone else's husband. 

Free2bMe