This appears to be a really hot topic. Some people are adamant that dating should be tabled until the dust settles on your divorce papers. In this country, divorce is clearly not a black and white transaction. I often say the wedding ceremony is 45 minutes tops but a divorce can drag on for years.
Our human nature has physical, mental and spiritual needs so are we to suppress these needs and push away opportunity for meeting the "right" person? I say go for what makes you feel comfortable at that moment and only do things that you feel are right for you and your needs. We are different creatures and cannot assume what works for others will necessarily work for you. However I am a huge proponent on being happy and if that means finding that person who offers you this then go for it. Now one aspect of this I am not comfortable with is introducing this significant other to your child(ren). Personally I believe this can wait until there is some longevity with the relationship.
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